The
Seven Pillars of a Kingdom Family
Pillar #1: Honoring God's Authority
God, as sovereign creator and sustainer of all, holds ultimate
authority over his creation. By establishing the family, God has
provided a unique setting in which each individual should come to
properly understand and respect authority. I will glorify God by
surrendering every area of my life to Him, and by offering godly
respect in all my earthly relationships, starting in my family.
Pillar #2. Respecting Human Life
Human life is a gift from God and is of transcendent worth. It
is to be treasured, protected, encouraged, and loved from the moment
of conception until the moment of death. I know that each member
of my family must ultimately give an account to God, and forgiveness
and eternal life in Heaven require personal repentance of sin and
faith in Christ. I will honor God by expressing self-sacrificial
love to each of my family members throughout the entirety of their
lives.
Pillar #3. Exercising Moral Purity
God has established the family as His first institution on earth.
It is worthy of my most noble aspirations and commitments, including
my commitment to moral purity, marital fidelity, and Christ-like
love for each family member. Because marriage is a picture of Christ's
faithfulness to his bride, the church, and because the family is
a picture of the father's faithfulness to his children, I will honor
the Lord by being faithful and pure.
Pillar #4. Serving My Church
The church is the bride of Christ, comprised of all the redeemed
who will, one day, be taken to heaven by Him. By exalting Christ,
resting on the sufficiency of His word and giving place to the ministry
of the Spirit, the local church becomes the means by which spiritual
growth is promoted and the ministry of Christ is brought to my family,
my community, and to the world. I will support and will encourage
my family to support our local church with faithful attendance,
diligent service, generous and God honoring giving, and loving cooperation.
Pillar #5. Using Time Wisely
Time is a resource given to each person by God. My use of it, especially
in matters related to my family, reflects my esteem for God. One
day, I will give an account to Him for how I have spent the time
He entrusted to me. As I order my life in concert with His will,
I will discover that I have sufficient time for personal growth
through prayer, for the study of God's word, and for fulfilling
every God-given responsibility related to my family.
Pillar #6. Practicing Biblical Stewardship
God has provided material resources so that I may glorify Him through
the exercise of faithful stewardship over them. I will be held accountable
for this stewardship. Therefore, I will diligently seek my master's
best interests in the way I earn money, expend it for life's needs,
use it to touch the lives of others and give it for the support
of His work through my local church.
Pillar 7. Sharing the Gospel of Jesus Christ
The greatest and most noble purpose in life is to glorify the Lord
through the fulfillment of His great commission. I will glorify
the Lord by sharing my faith with my family, and by joining with
them and others in specific activities that cultivate a passion
for fulfilling the Great Commission.